1. Can the two of you resolve problems without name-calling, digging up the past, or getting off the subject?
2. Do you enjoy spending time with your partner?
3. Do you and your partner have activities that you like to do together?
4. Do you and your partner respect each other's differences and accept that you will not always agree?
5. Have the two of you worked out a balance between spending time together and pursuing separate interests?
6. Do the two of you laugh together?
7. Do you have a fulfilling and enjoyable sex life?
8. Do the two of you share the same basic values?